The cramping very well could have been from dehydration and/or ligament pain.
Things are okay. Hubby isn't "excited" so to speak... but he hasn't once mentioned abortion again. Instead the only time it was mentioned is when he was talking about maybe rearranging our living room to have to play room like we used to in our old house. Oh... and when I nicely informed him he had to start doing the cat box haha that will be my favorite part!!