Luvbeingmomma that's way easier said than done.....the reality of having little ones in our homes and attaching to them since its so important for their little brains is that we put our hearts on the line. When they tell you that it looks long term-preadoptive it's normal to let your head/heart "go there."
So sorry, mama. Praying it comes to quick resolution.
Beloved daughter of the King of Kings, married to DH for 15 years
SAHM mom to DS 14, DS 12, DD 10, DD 8, DS 5, DS 4, DFD 2, and DFD 6 mos
Hopeful to adopt both DFDs before the end of 2013!