Re: Need Advice
That's awful. I think groups like that should be just as much support for moms as for kids. HS moms really need time to connect with adults that are in a similar life situation. As much as those situations are awkward I'd probably start by asking why he wasn't invited to the play. Maybe that will open the door for more detail.
We recently joined a HS group that had been together for a few months already. They welcomed us with open arms and really made a big effort to get to know us. Money shouldn't be an issue and if it is for them I probably wouldn't want my kids around that anyways. Are there other groups that might be an option or could you start your own group? If you've had this experience with them it's likely others may have too.