[stevensmom]

We lost my cousin at 3 months to SIDS (25+ years ago)...he was at my grandmas house (she had a daycare) and when she went to go get him up from his nap he wouldn't wake up

That is one of my biggest fears after pregnancy. And if it truely is SIDS there is nothing that could have been done. In my aunt and uncles SIDS grieving group, one of the parents was an anestethiologist (however that is spelled) and their son died right in his arms of SIDS. *This is a hot topic of mine and I hate debating it *

Sending my love and prayers to your friends family.