People are so nit picky here sometimes...I'm sure she isn't being insulting, just descriptive. I am just not really all that PC either so maybe I just don't read into these things like some here.
OP, I have a boy like your first, so I can only imagine having our second be lime your second. I think it's a lot personality, and handling it right. Like you said, console but don't baby is how I would try to approach it as he gets older. At this age I would just be calm and reassure him he's ok. It doesn't sound like you are dramatically rushing over like OMG baby are you ok?!?!
Proud SAHM to Connor (8-6-10)
and our little