03-23-2013, 07:06 PM
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Orchard Park, WNY
Re: When to stop babying your babies??
So if I feel put off and confused by the term sissy, does that make me nitpicky? Just curious, because I do feel a bit insulted by it, and I couldn't put my finger on why at first.
Originally Posted by Mom2Connor
People are so nit picky here sometimes...I'm sure she isn't being insulting, just descriptive.
So I got the definition:
derogatory. A person regarded as effeminate or cowardly.
derogatory. Feeble and cowardly.
I think these definitions is why I am uncomfortable with the word. It's derogatory and being used about a baby. If this isn't how the OP meant it, then it was a poor choice of word.
Anyway, if the question is, when do you stop responding to every single bump, I'd say at about 6 months. I follow my kids lead though, and if they are genuinely scared or sad or hurt, I react with love and care regardless of gender or to how they might turn out later on.
Danielle, Nick, Gigi ('08) and William ('11)