Don't plan. It will fall into place. Plan a you want and it can just easily fall apart.
We planned, stressed, panicked... And both times- did something completely different with our son(s)
The second time I knew I was in labor. And just called a sitter. No stress. We paid her $80 done. First time, we planned several friends, then back ups. But know what? At 3am- I needed to drop him FAsT. So he went with my husbands co-workers family (he was 18montjd and had a blast!!! And he hated strangers.)
BFing, CDing, all natural mama to three boys! Certified lactation Counselor