I also have dd 16 mo and we used to have this problem. It isn't very creative, and it took a week or two of being consistent, but anytime she grabs for it I hold her hand down and say, "no! Mommy brush." Sometimes at the end I say, "okay, now Annabelle brush!" And let her have it for 30 seconds or so. I mostly skip that part now though.
Aubrey, married to Gavin 9/14/2008
Mama to Annabelle 11/2011 and expecting Harrison 11/2014
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