Re: Question about pumping frequency :)
I would pump after she nurses. Your primary goal is to get her to nurse & feed from the breast exclusively, not to fill a bottle - that's more appropriate when you're separated.
Mama to a beautiful deaf son (bilateral cochlear implants - my baby can hear!!) born 6/13/08 and a hearing son born 1/7/10, who are intact,
DC3 coming in July