Re: So is it REALLY bad that...
Our doctor has well baby and sick baby waiting rooms so dd has never gotten sick after going to the doctor. She also saved breastfeeding for me. She showed me a hold that no LC had and it was amazing. She is also a vegetarian and I just love her.
I think there are lousy doctors and there are great doctors. It would be good to have one that you have a relationship with so if you do need one you have somone you can call. Ask around and see if you can find one that would be a good fit fo you.
Though I think maternal insticts are the best, it is good to have a doc affirm you are right!