Re: When is the spitting up considered reflux??
I would take my LO in to see the doctor. From what you are describing, your LO sounds like he is in pain, in my mind that is plenty enough reason to head to the doctor. What your midwife is telling you is valid and will apply to a reflux situation as well (keep him more upright after feedings, offer smaller amounts more often, etc.), BUT he MAY need the help of some medication as well to get him through until his body is more mature and can keep the stomach contents where they belong! Good luck!
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