Re: goodbye mamas
I'm very sorry for your loss; I'm going through the same thing myself, now. Mothering.com has a very good sticky in the pregnancy and loss forum that may be helpful to you about what to expect physically (assuming you did not have a D&C). Even if you have, I found it helpful to read some mama's accounts of what they went through emotionally.
Wife to Nery, Mama to
Cora "Coco" Isabella 10/28/05, an angel 04/08,
Gian Elisandro 3/26/09, and an angel 06/11