Re: So I thought the third baby............
My lily was the same way. My DH even said her scream hurts my ears. He never said it but I know he didnt start enjoying her until around 4 months. Have you read the happiest baby on the block? Tried swaddling? The only way my DH could hold my DD in the first few months was 1. she had to be swaddled and 2. he had to bounce her an exercise ball. He did that every night and put her to sleep that way. Of course she would wake up in an hour to want to nurse but it made him feel good.