Re: What do you wish you had?
I couldn't have nursed without my breastfriend pillow (the boppy hit my c-section incison).
I also second the cabbage!!! It helps when you get engorged.
I bought a bunch of bravado nursing bras but truth be told the Walmart ones I got (to use until my milk came in and my chest stopped changing sizes) are much more comfy.
The nipple shield. With ODD we had to use it for 4 months until she could learn to latch (she was in the NICU and they gave her a bottle which just confused her).
A water bottle...sounds funny but I kept a water bottle next to wear I was nursing to remember to keep the fluids going.
Hmm..you've gotten lots of good advice!