Re: "Bad" parenting or just different?
I agree with most that I don't think it's "bad".
Although, if she is propping the bottle, she needs to be RIGHT THERE. Amy could choke on the milk.
I think a lot of us here are more "nuturing", although, please don't think I'm calling your daughter un-nurturing, but we're just more "hands on".
How old is your daughter? Maybe some parenting classes would increase her mothering skills!