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Old 06-25-2008, 06:10 PM   #15
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Re: Yes another circumcision post-no flaming!

Originally Posted by AnnaG01 View Post
Great thread!

I have just learned about NOT circ'ing my DS and my first DS and DH are circ'd...and this one will not be.

The best thing I heard when making my decision was that when they're adult males the skin naturally retracts, whereas a baby's skin is similar to your fingernail attached to your finger (the foreskin and head are fused) when you hear "it's worse for a grownup to get circ'd" I think that's BS because when a baby gets it done they tear the head and the foreskin apart, and at least an adult males already retracts and can just be cut, and an adult male can have proper pain medication before AND after the circ, unlike a baby. I have heard that when you hear your baby is sleeping sweetly during his circ and can't feel it...that is thought to possibly be a coping mechanism for infants in horrible pain, and they're possibly in shock. You can't tell me they can't feel it, even the sleeping ones who don't appear botherd.

Stand firm on your decision, you're doing the right thing!
That's right, it is better for a grown man for many many reasons. I never got the "it's worse if he has to have it done later." How could it be worse? In an infant the forskin is fused like you said, plus infants do not get proper anesthesia for the procedure (the majority are still given sugar pacifiers or bottles of sugar water and nothing more, maybe EMLA, a product not supposed to be used on genitals, if they are lucky). A grown man will get general anesthesia and appropriate pain management after the surgery. But the other thing to take into consideration is size. Is it easier to perform surgery on a tiny nb or a grown man? There is more to work with so to speak on the adult, cutting down the risk of a botch. But also when a dr circumcises a baby he guesses how much to take off. If he takes off to much the child will grow into a man who cannot have an erection without his skin splitting open painfully. Tight infant circumcisions lead to curved painful erections and penises that are on average 2 inches shorter than their intact counter parts. I do'nt know a man out there who wants his penis to be smaller.

So yes, it is definately easier and better to perform a circumcision on a grown man. I think it is a myth that runs along the lines of people not believing that nbs feel pain the same as we do. It's not true, and infact studies have shown that nb boys who were circumcised have a harder time handling the pain of routine vaccinations than their intact counter parts. That much pain that young does something to the still developing mind. It definately isn't something to be done lightly.
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