Re: Selective reduction
I lost a baby shortly after birth due to a neural tube defect. We knew she was going to die from it, but we chose to have her anyway. I NEVER for one day regret my decision to have her. I cherish those few sweet moments that I was blessed with her life, as short as it was. In the end your sister (or friend, I can't remember which) must make a decision that is right for her; but I can tell you from my experience I would never have done things differently, and never would (if the situation presents itself in the future).
Shannon - Loving wife to my Navy man
Mommy to Noah 6.5, Caitlyn 2.5, and Aiden 2-28-08
and my two angels CL, and Emily JoAn b/d 5-14-2004
*****No longer anxiously awaiting Aiden - He's HERE!!