Re: Do you really say mean things or expect an explanation?
Yeah! No kidding! Besides, isn't legitimate a relative term? For instance I could think that non-latching or inadequate supply is legitimate while someone else thinks that the pain and difficulty is legitimate. And lets not forget the 1000's of woman who suffer postpartum depression who can't for no other reason then they can't!
Originally Posted by JuliaMaite
But the point is you don't know and (excuse the way this sounds) it's none of our business... bf is hard at the begining (it was for me, too). I really would like to be a support for moms that are encountering difficulties (like you did and got through), but at the end of the day, if you would have given up, I wouldn't judge you. (
glad you got through that and are bf)
You are unlikely going to get impartial feedback here as most people who say things that are perceived as nasty are unlikely to admit or believe that they are being a jerk. It can typically be rationalized as they are only passing on good information or voicing their opinion. Heck I see it in this thread.
Please excuse my spelling- I am typing with one hand and trying to hold on to my sanity with the other.