Yes, all three. My husband and I are roman catholics. My oldest and youngest were baptised at 6 weeks and my second was in the hospital becaue he was in nicu so we called the priest to come to the hospital to do it. He was done at 2 days old. I believe in baptism and the catholic religion so it was not a decision of sorts. As far as the paying thing we were never charged for a baptism. We made donations for every one to the church but you don't have too. My oldest son goes to ccd classes every week and had had his first communion last year. But it is a parental decision nad no one elses.