Re: What 'cake-like treat' for 1st b-day?
We did carrot cake for ds's 2nd b'day. Everyone loved it except the neighbor's 3 yo who complained there were vegetables in her cake. oh well. We don't do the no sugar thing - I don't give him much but it's not off limits either.
For his first b'day I made a mix cake(we were away from home) and used olive oil instead of plain veg or canola in it.