Re: How often do you cook.
I cook every day. DH was laid off last week, so he has cooked a couple of dinners, which has been fantastic! (Really the first he's ever cooked in the 6.5 years we've been married!)
Sometimes my kitchen is a disaster. I try to run the dishwasher at night and then unload it in the morning while DD eats breakfast. That leaves it empty to be filled throughout the day, and helps a lot!