Re: OT - how do you go about separating?
I think you need to tell you're husband that you're seriously thinking about the big D. Does he know? At least bring it up, so if it does come to that, it's not like it's out of the clear blue sky, kwim?
And I agree, it's a bad example, and sometimes separation is the best solution, but at least let him know it's that serious.
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