Re: WWYD when DH "Drops" the baby...
I didn't see the OP, but I think I can gather what it was about. I *have* been there. I felt the exact same way as you (at least, from what I can tell). I left to get food and left dh and ds1 home when ds1 was about...3-4months old. I only went like..a mile away. Dh called while I was gone and said that ds had rolled off the couch. I started crying and flipped out, hysterical! I screamed at him that I would never leave them alone again.
I stayed angry/upset and it didn't really affect our relationship in a big way, but I did realize that it could happen to anyone I've had my share of incidents...I'm a little more laid back now than I was when ds1 was 3 or 4 months old. Doesn't change how THAT particular incident made me feel at the time.
SAHM to Kain
~*55 lbs lost, 25 to go!*~