Re: "done" or "not done"?? LONNGG......
Something I would consider, if I were you, is how well your body could handle another pregnancy. You said you had 3 c-sections already and that you had some scarring and the gyno is concerned with the possibility of rupture with an IUD. How do those factors effect a possible future pregnancy?
Would adoption be an option in the future?
For us, it was either we have the possibility of more children or we have the possibility of a strong, sound marriage. We have 3 kids. My husband would've been happy with one, but I wanted more. But when the youngest came along, he said he was done. And I was content with that. I mean, yes, I wouldn't mind having more, but not if it's going to put a strain on my marriage. I don't know if you pray, but I encourage you to go to God with this and encourage your husband to as well. Ask for his guidance and that y'all can come to a decision that you are both at peace with.