Re: "Safe" laundry detergents???
have you tried sals suds. its an organic soap. I soak my whites in it with hot water and a little sals suds and some peroxide whites come out great. and you can use the sals suds for pre treater as well.
Love is compromise. Its accepting that both of you are diffrent. And learning to love the uniqueness of each other. Its learning to love those things which drive you nuts, and accepting them and not trying to change someone to how you want them to be.