Re: Can I fight this?
You absolutely have the right to say no! And to break them up. Especially since she had a bad reaction. In fact I would be worrying if you DIDN'T break them up after a bad reaction. I agree with A.B (as usual) call their bluff. And even if they do push the issue, what are they going to find? That you are taking care of your DD? Don't let them push you around. You need to do what's best for your family!
Loving wife to my Navy man
and Momma to Big Sister Sept 06, Baby boy Feb 09!