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Old 09-12-2009, 07:02 PM   #16
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Re: What we wish you knew about pregnancy loss

Well said. I agree with it all. When my mom lost my brother when she was pregnant, people said and did the same things as the "do not" list. Their biggest thing was, well at least you have your other kids....and at least you lost him early before you really got to know him. Those were so hurtful for her because she loved the baby growing inside her. When I lost my last baby very early, my husband....my own husband said...at least it was early. He was just as insensitive as the rest. Sometimes, even the people we love so dearly can be just as insensitive as the rest.
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