Sounds like it's time to vote... bfps in the ttc forum?
Sounds like from the mods the choice is either all bfps are allowed (whether from folks who've been here forever or brand newbies who weren't even trying) or no bfps are allowed. What say we?
Mommy to my charming and funny little man Oliver
and after years of waiting, overjoyed to welcome my new little lady Ava