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Old 09-20-2009, 08:04 AM   #9
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Re: Sounds like it's time to vote... bfps in the ttc forum?

I have to chime in here and I'll apologize in advance in case it offends anyone. I've been cheering for all the ladies in ATTS and trying to help out others with questions in other threads. I've been through the ttc journey on another board and know what its like to see the bfp's posted when it feels hopeless for yourself. That said...

BFP's are part of TTC. If you are having a bad day and don't want to see it then skip it. If it's someone who just joined DS and their only post is their BFP in the TTC forum the deserve a congrats too. We don't know their history and even if they say they weren't ttc that's no reason to give them the cold shoulder. Of course direct them to the pg/dd folders but just remember that there's a person on the other end who in one way or another needs some sort of support. Isn't that why we're all here??

I'd just hate to see this go all cliquey and don't think its fair to say only those who are part of the ATTS are allowed or welcome to post BFP threads. We are grown women and this isn't grade school or high school anymore...
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