Re: S/O- more questions for mamas with lots of kiddos.
ITA about the $200 a month grocery's thing! WOW! DS doesn't eat much, and me and DF spend about $300 a month (we're budgeted up to $400 just in case), and it's just us! However, this includes everything else (shampoo, soap, dryer sheets, ).
Bloom where you are planted.