Re: WWYD? Second child
I would wait until you feel comfortable with the idea. A lot can change in a matter of months!
Myself, I had been SURE that I would want to try for #2 when DD was 1.. that was my plan in the months leading up to her first birthday. But then I realized, I was not ready yet! Fast forward about 7 months from then, and I was starting to feel a LOT better about the idea, and DH was on board when I brought it up with him. DD was 21 months at this time, which is a BIG difference in my opinion from the 12 month old. She will be 2 1/2 when her little brother is born, and I'm SO happy with our choices and timing.