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Old 03-21-2010, 01:18 PM   #10
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Re: Please Read Before Posting in This Forum

I think it's a great rule. I have a child. I've lost four, my most recent being the first loss since my daughter. I don't hang out in infertility forums with my daughter hanging on my sig and I think it's thoughtful for pregnant people not to hang out in loss forums with their pregnancy on their sig.
A lot of people who have had loss are not looking for advice or insight or hope. We all know that everyone is different and that people who have been through what we have been through have gotten pregnant. If someone is specifically looking for that, then by all means, let pregnant people answer them, but overall, I would concur that this forum is best left a refuge and a safe place for those who are IN the despair or mourning phase.

Great sticky, Proverbs, and well said. Much more sensitive than I am.
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