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Old 11-19-2012, 08:14 PM   #17
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Re: Are we stuck in the 1950's???

So, my husband says to me after reading this article, "Those are all great ideas, I don't know what you're complaining about!" He was TOTALLY joking! He even said, who has hours after a new baby is born to play sex games and have foreplay?!? My husband is the best after the baby comes. He takes care of me in any way he can (and I do things I can for him). By no means do I take a month or two off from life to bond with my newborn (my husband is active duty military and I have 2 toddlers already, so not possible). But he allows me the time to heal by cooking (and I arrange easy meals for him to prepare), keeping up with dishes, changing diapers every night and bringing the baby to me to be nursed, etc. I do like some of the ideas, but I'm definitely not going to stress about making him happy/feel included
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