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Old 04-01-2011, 09:30 PM   #1
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The title says it all! How are YOU avoiding???






DH and I use the withdrawl method to avoid. I'm an avid charter but we don't do anything special when I'm fertile. We just always withdrawl.

I know many people don't believe the withdrawl method is effective but it's never failed us and we've got quite a bit of experience with it. We follow the rules and DH has excellent timing. We're also very open to a "suprise" pregnancy. We plan on having more children, just not yet. I'm allergic to latex condoms and I want my cycles to run their natural course. The withdrawl method is a prefect fit for us!
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Old 04-01-2011, 09:35 PM   #2
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I use the minipill, since I was BFing and we have a withdrawl method baby already. We can't use condoms either, so it was just the best option at the time. I have my checkup at the end of the month, so I'm going to look into other options then...I also stink at remembering to take pills.
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minipill

and dh is done so he would like to get the snip...but I'm not ready for that yet
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Old 04-01-2011, 09:43 PM   #4
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Withdrawl as well, but we use condoms during ovulation.
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Withdraw or condoms. I'm bf'ing our 10m old, and have not gotten a ppaf yet. I did use Mirena for 3m, but hated it so had it removed 33 days ago, still no sign of AF but I may have o'd. I use mucus and position, and I occasionally use an opk. I don't temp bc ds doesn't sttn and with no cycle, itd drive me crazy. When AF comes back I will

Dh is planning on a vasectomy. We have 3 children, I'd like 1 more, but I know he is "done" and my heart can be happy with 3. I just think he might be having second thoughts, I mean really... He's had 10 months! He has also said he would not be upset if we got a surprise.
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tygr2410- We sound very similar. I have a 10 mon old as well who is bf with no PPAF yet. For the first couple months after her birth, I was put on the mini-pill which made me so depressed and all out whacky. Since then, I've been monitoring my temps, CM, and cervical position. We've been using the pull out method as well, but I do have condoms just in case I think my body may be restarting. Personally, I wouldn't mind another baby, but hubby says he's done.
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I do chart using mucus and position fertility signs, but I wake frequently at night/early morning to breastfeed, so I don't think that my BBT is accurate. We use withdrawal as well. I hate it less than I hate condoms... We're talking about a vasectomy.
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Old 04-02-2011, 08:19 AM   #8
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I am BF a 5 mo and got my first period a few weeks ago. I really don't want to go on any hormonal birth control- already have emotional problems. Where can I find out more about cervical position, charting, etc? We want more kids but I don't want to get pregnant while I am BFing and we really can't afford another baby right now! I was charting when I got pregnant with this one (obviously was not doing a very good job!)
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Exlusively NFPing

You could look at the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility OR take a class through Couple to Couple League.
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Except that since my cycles haven't returned yet, but I've had cm most constantly for over a month, we're using the "let's have sex and hope I don't ovulate in the next couple days" method. We are totally opposed to introducing artificial birth control into our marriage, so for now we just have to be open to God's will if we want to be physically intimate. If He sends us another child, we know He doesn't make mistakes.
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