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Old 01-01-2012, 04:03 PM   #1
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You got my nephew WHAT for christmas

so I was visiting with my brother and his wife today. that got my brothers step son a gun for christmas.

HES FOUR. him and my son and three weeks apart and Im just dumbfounded.

a REAL GUN for a FOUR year old.

and I must have looked shocked because my brothers like.. but its little and kid size.


I guess I should add I shouldnt be shocked they live in a rural area, are hunters, and my brother loves to shoot. It just caught me by surprise and I was like err say what...

Im paranoid about guns, they were never locked up when we were kids and we were allowed outside shooting them unsupervised at a young age and my brother knows my thoughts on the topic.

Im not opposed to guns but I think they belong locked up and out of kids reach at all times unless they are directly using them. My belief is not recognized by everyone in my family.

I hope they have them and his locked up. I didnt ask because if I found out otherwise I would have blew my top. I know he has not very responsible in the past and used to just leave them about pre-kid (they just got married in August so its possible they are locked up now Ive not checked and my kid has never been there without me supervising so I dont know...)

I do know he has a gun cabinet but more guns then will fit in it but he could have got another one
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Um, wow! I would never buy a gun let alone for a kid that little. The fact that he tried to justify it means he knows it was crazy!
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Our friend always gives the boys in our group BB rifles for their 1st birthdays. My brother bought his daughter a purple-stocked rifle for her 3rd birthday. They're all big hunters though, so it goes along with the 50cc dirt bikes and quads all those kids also get.

DS has never shot the BB rifle he got for his 1st birthday. Maybe after he turns five we will let him. Maybe.
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Old 01-01-2012, 04:36 PM   #4
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Re: You got my nephew WHAT for christmas

what kind of gun was it? If it was like a child size BB gun and they will be supervising him at all times, then no, I wouldn't be shocked. I would not be okay about this for my own kids but in many areas of the US or in many cultures, it is perfectly acceptable for a child to have something like this. I can see why it would be shocking though.

I have some nieces and nephews that go hunting as young as 6 years old. They shoot deer or turkeys. They are supervised but they do the shooting
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Maybe it's just me, but I don't think that's so weird. If the family tradition is to shoot things, 4 is a perfectly acceptable age to teach responsible gun use. I assume they're not just letting him keep it in his toy box.

And I assume there are other, bigger guns already in that house.
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Maybe it's just me, but I don't think that's so weird. If the family tradition is to shoot things, 4 is a perfectly acceptable age to teach responsible gun use. I assume they're not just letting him keep it in his toy box.

And I assume there are other, bigger guns already in that house.


Ditto, Idon't find it weird that they would think it was perfectly okay and normal to get a 4 year old a gun, if the family goes out hunting, etc,and I hate guns. lol DH has guns, he says for protection, but they are kind of a hobby. He doesn't hunt. But he will NEVER EVER buy our small child a gun. If say, our kids get into it as teenagers and want to go shooting with him at the range, are responsible, etc, we'll talk. but yeah. Most likely it will be something like a tattoo. When you're out of the house and 18, do what you want. lol

I have friends that go out on motorcycles and quads, and thier kids had thier own quads at a very young age, and there's no way I'd put my 3 or 4 year old on one, I find them dangerous. but if that's what you like to do, I don't see a problem. it's a family thing.
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I'd rather give a gun to a four year old, than some of the teenagers I know. It seems like the average four year old has more sense than my neighbor teens.

I don't think it's that weird either. I think gun families just naturally buy their kids guns. (not gang banger gun families.... I was thinking hunters and sports enthusiasts) It's like dirt biking families buy their four year old a dirt bike, and i'm always thinking "he can't even ride a two wheeler yet".
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I'd rather give a gun to a four year old, than some of the teenagers I know. It seems like the average four year old has more sense than my neighbor teens.

I don't think it's that weird either. I think gun families just naturally buy their kids guns. (not gang banger gun families.... I was thinking hunters and sports enthusiasts) It's like dirt biking families buy their four year old a dirt bike, and i'm always thinking "he can't even ride a two wheeler yet".
thisis very true it just caught me off gaurd I was expecting him to list off to me some toys kwim ...
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DH totally wanted to get DD a pink Crickett for Christmas. But, it would not have been really for her. It would have been locked up in the safe with the rest and used with complete hands-on supervision.

However, we agreed to wait til next year.
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DH totally wanted to get DD a pink Crickett for Christmas. But, it would not have been really for her. It would have been locked up in the safe with the rest and used with complete hands-on supervision.

However, we agreed to wait til next year.
My older two each have their own Crickett's. DS was 4 when he got his, ODD was 6, I think, or maybe had just turned 7. They were thrilled with them. DH takes them out shooting and they are turning into good shots.

However, before buying the guns for them, they got a very, very thorough lessoning in gun safety. They got drilled, too, so we knew they knew the correct answers and knew the why of the safety. So long as the gun safety is taught, I see no problem with a 4 yr old having a gun.
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