My 2 yo is curious :o) - Cloth Diapers & Parenting Community

ttrjpbc · 10-20-2006, 04:14 PM

She is adopted also (4 bio, 2 adopted) and is 28 months. She wanted baby's "juice cup" last night....so I let her (for the first time ever) and she just laid there not sure what to do........so did I really

but it was sweet, and I felt bonding with her that was special. I asked her not to bite mommy, but I think I scared her away from trying to suckle now because she thinks it will hurt me.....I had no intentions of nursing her, but don't want to turn her away either. She is showing more interest than the baby (I am working on lactating for!!)
Plus, if I could get her to pacify at the breast, she might help my milk too?? Maybe?? Is is right that it is a little uncomfortable at first?

So, today out of no where, she starts pulling up my shirt and wants boobies! In front of others in the family who didn't know anything about last night....

I don't know what I am asking really...maybe for someone to tell me it's fine?

What do you'all think?

Thanks

KnottyLDSMama · 10-20-2006, 04:20 PM

I think it's great! Especially since I gues she never got bm? And yup, it'll help your milk production along!

superMoM2GTO · 10-20-2006, 04:47 PM

I think its GREAT! Just think of all the health benefits you both will recieve from this

Don't let anyone's neg vibe

sway you, you know whats best!

ashleynjacy · 10-20-2006, 04:48 PM

I nursed my nephew once when my sister had no money for formula...I felt weird...lol. I just told my husband and he told me I belong on Jerry Springer!

ashleynjacy · 10-20-2006, 04:50 PM

I think if you fee fine about it thats a that matters!

ttrjpbc · 10-20-2006, 04:53 PM

That is sweet really!! My husband would think I was off my rocker too!!

The rich used to pay a wet nurse, right? Still do in lots of cultures!

vegmom · 10-20-2006, 05:09 PM

I think it's very sweet and wonderful! I say keep it up!

Luv2bemommy · 10-20-2006, 05:55 PM

I think it's fantastic!

betty_joanne · 10-20-2006, 06:38 PM

I don't see anything wrong with it. Some people nurse their friend's baby so why not an adopted baby/young child.
Just ignore other people and their comments. Your her parent now and you should choose what is best for her.

Midwyfe · 10-21-2006, 05:14 PM

I think that it so wonderful.
She is curious and her curiosity on this level is such a positive thing for you, her and building up your supply.

10-20-2006, 04:14 PM	#1
ttrjpbc Transaction Issues arising. Please file a cliam if you are waiting on items!! Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,869 Ratings: 260 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	My 2 yo is curious :o) She is adopted also (4 bio, 2 adopted) and is 28 months. She wanted baby's "juice cup" last night....so I let her (for the first time ever) and she just laid there not sure what to do........so did I really but it was sweet, and I felt bonding with her that was special. I asked her not to bite mommy, but I think I scared her away from trying to suckle now because she thinks it will hurt me.....I had no intentions of nursing her, but don't want to turn her away either. She is showing more interest than the baby (I am working on lactating for!!) Plus, if I could get her to pacify at the breast, she might help my milk too?? Maybe?? Is is right that it is a little uncomfortable at first? So, today out of no where, she starts pulling up my shirt and wants boobies! In front of others in the family who didn't know anything about last night.... I don't know what I am asking really...maybe for someone to tell me it's fine? What do you'all think? Thanks __________________ Tonia MOMYS to 6 Blessings ~4 Bio and 2 Chosen~

10-20-2006, 04:20 PM	#2
KnottyLDSMama Peachy with a side of keen, that would be me Formerly: Moonprysm Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 5,975 Ratings: 82 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think it's great! Especially since I gues she never got bm? And yup, it'll help your milk production along! __________________ Tiffani wife of Wes 11/16/02, Partner of Jamie and David SAHM to Xander 4/5/06, Jaime 1/20/09, and Malcolm 11/15/10

10-20-2006, 04:47 PM	#3
superMoM2GTO Registered Users Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sunny San Diego Posts: 2,994 Ratings: 213 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think its GREAT! Just think of all the health benefits you both will recieve from this Don't let anyone's neg vibe sway you, you know whats best!

10-20-2006, 04:48 PM	#4
ashleynjacy Registered Users Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,083 Ratings: 131 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I nursed my nephew once when my sister had no money for formula...I felt weird...lol. I just told my husband and he told me I belong on Jerry Springer! __________________ Ashley, check out my new blog http://momonamoneymission.blogspot.com/

10-20-2006, 04:50 PM	#5
ashleynjacy Registered Users Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,083 Ratings: 131 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think if you fee fine about it thats a that matters! __________________ Ashley, check out my new blog http://momonamoneymission.blogspot.com/

10-20-2006, 04:53 PM	#6
ttrjpbc Transaction Issues arising. Please file a cliam if you are waiting on items!! Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,869 Ratings: 260 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) That is sweet really!! My husband would think I was off my rocker too!! The rich used to pay a wet nurse, right? Still do in lots of cultures! __________________ Tonia MOMYS to 6 Blessings ~4 Bio and 2 Chosen~

10-20-2006, 05:09 PM	#7
vegmom Registered Users Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: MI Posts: 31 Ratings: 8 Feedback: 100%	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think it's very sweet and wonderful! I say keep it up! Last edited by vegmom; 10-20-2006 at 05:11 PM.

10-20-2006, 05:55 PM	#8
Luv2bemommy Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: North Carolina Posts: 2,845 Ratings: 8 Feedback: 100% My Mood:	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think it's fantastic! __________________ ~Candice~ Wife, Doula, Midwifery student and SAHM to 4, Expecting a new little one around Christmas!

10-20-2006, 06:38 PM	#9
betty_joanne Registered Users Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: tx Posts: 3,197 Ratings: 53 Feedback: 100%	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I don't see anything wrong with it. Some people nurse their friend's baby so why not an adopted baby/young child. Just ignore other people and their comments. Your her parent now and you should choose what is best for her. __________________ Search the internet & earn Amazon gift cards. SWAGBUCKS ISO: girls ballet/dance shoes. dd has 6.5" foot h to t

10-21-2006, 05:14 PM	#10
Midwyfe Registered Users Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 34 Ratings: 14 Feedback: 85%	Re: My 2 yo is curious :o) I think that it so wonderful. She is curious and her curiosity on this level is such a positive thing for you, her and building up your supply.

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