Anyone else got the fever bad?

[imommy]

My baby fever has kicked up a notch since DS turned 1 a month ago. I cannot seem to stop thinking about a tiny little baby again. I have been told to wait because of lots of complications with my son but it doesn't stop the urge .

Anyone else in the same boat? Wanting but having to wait (not necessarily wanting to wait)?

[Bare Bottom Gear]

I feel ya mama! DH is no where near wanting a 3rd and I am....though lately I have been too busy to want another.....LOL.


Pm'd ya too.

[FunnyMonkey]

Me... I lost a baby to ectopic pregnancy this spring and medically I need to give my body time to heal. At this point it looks like it will be at least August before we can ttc & that will only happen if my tests come back ok in July. I really wanted to get pregnant right away when I thought I lost the baby to a miscarriage, but as events unfolded & it turned out to be ectopic, it took a very long time to get thru everything (I thought I miscarried march 8 & it was only this last wednesday I was finally done with weekly followup blood tests & given the ok to start folic acid/prenatals again).

In the meantime everyone around me is pregnant, which for the most part is actually a healing thing for me in a way. Some days are hard b/c it does make me think about the loss, but that just forces me to deal with it rather than be in denial about it. Most of the time it just makes me happy to think of these babies coming into the world, grateful everything is going RIGHT for them & makes me hopeful it will all work out for me too (some of the mom's had previous losses, needed interventions to get pregnant or are my age in their mid-late 30s).

Anyway, I'm right there with you, crossing off the days.

[Carrie]

mamas! I had the fever a few months ago and then it left as quickly as it came.

[OneFabMama]

Nope! No fever here thank goodness.

[rds989]

Yup! It's killing me. But I really think it'd be best if we wait another year. So I hang out here and live vicariously!

[Samantha]

Not anymore!

[lindsayncadence]

oo i have it SO bad we agreed to ttc in december but i told him i wanna try earlier bc i dont want another fall/winter baby he said ok.......well i get my iud out june 2nd and i quit my bcp (bc they have had me bleeding for 23 days!!!!) so i told him we needed to use condoms for a while but i have a feeling i will be gettin my BFP sooner.............also ive gotten to the point where i HAVE to find out as much ingo as possible about homebirth and cannot find anyone around here to attend so i am pry doing UC my mom had to gently remind me last night im not even pregnant yet LOL

[AmandaSue22]

I want to ttc bad, but my doctor advised us to wait. So I am stuck in the middle. Wanting and not able to ttc. I had a m/c this month so who knows when my cycle would even end. I did say we were trying but I am going to wait. Me and Adam are seeing eye to eye on this now and he thinks we should wait it out too. I change my mind monthly on when I want another one though lol I think the preggos and babies make me want it more then I want it on my own lol

[hfitz5051]

ME ME ME!!! Hazel is almost a year, I think that is when it gets the worst. I got pregnant with #2 right before #1 turned 1. We have 3 now and I must be nuts to be ready for #4 already, but I am.