Separated but living together?

[Dillysmum]

Update --We are getting a divorce. Not right now in this moment but eventually. I guess after 19 years we just don't have want it takes to continue on. I don't think I could ever trust him again. 2affairs in 2 years is just too much for me. I deserve more as do my children.

Thank you every one for all your words of encouragement.

[DillyDay]

sorry for your loss of trust in him, and he didn't think of the consequences other then what his needs were.

[Nimyue]

Yes, I think it would be far too painful for you to see him date other women. No one should have to go through that! Take your boys and move home. Go be with family who will help support you through your grieving process. I understand you don't want to take the boys away from their father, but your sons should not see their father treating their mother so badly. You deserve to be happy! and it doesn't sound like you are. How can you grieve and possibly move on if you're living with STBX? If you can manage it, move home, be with family, and make STBX pay child support ASAP.

[justjacqueline]

Originally Posted by Nimyue Yes, I think it would be far too painful for you to see him date other women. No one should have to go through that! Take your boys and move home. Go be with family who will help support you through your grieving process. I understand you don't want to take the boys away from their father, but your sons should not see their father treating their mother so badly. You deserve to be happy! and it doesn't sound like you are. How can you grieve and possibly move on if you're living with STBX? If you can manage it, move home, be with family, and make STBX pay child support ASAP.

Agreed.

[Honeybear427]

I am there with you. One time is worth it to work through but not twice. Good luck to you!

[Umm_Ibraheem]

I don't know what to say.