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[Holly dolly]

Originally Posted by jamieism No advice or opinion, just hugs, mama

This. I'm so very sorry.

[lolson3]

I'm no help, but

[almostcrunchy]

I'd say the later date makes sense.
I'm sorry for what you are going through.

[peaches330]

First off, . I am sorry that you are going through this right now. Stranger things have happened, but I'm going to have to say that the later date is probably right. Ultrasounds can be a little off but usually within a week difference. With the two conception days being 20 whole days apart and the u/s being at 5 weeks, I think that the first date is pretty unlikely to be your date of conception.

[clatchford2011]

First I am sorry for what happened to you. Have you considered counseling? It would be a good time to go and seek emotional help right now. I was heavily drugged and raped years ago and I can relate to your pain. I am so sorry mama...

As far as your dates it is looking like the first date isn't very likely at all. Being like some other mama's said it is a huge gap between.

Take gentle care of yourself mama. One day at a time and be kind to yourself. Nothing is your fault.

Praying for you.