How do you deal with gender dissapointment?

[mamashhon]

I'm sorry mama. I haven't read every reply but wanted to sympathize. I have three sons and although i wanted three sons, DH very much wanted a girl. VERY MUCH. I can tell he's not over it.

Strangers comments make it worse. Everyone asks me if we're going to "try again" for a girl. I'm sure once you meet your little guy it will be easier. Maybe talking about it might help. DH and I have been suffering in our marriage since his birth because of this and talking with a counselor and just being able to get it all out helps.