What would yoo do?

[am_ryan21]

I purchased an item off the fsot before the 7th not sure the exact date right this minute. I still haven't received a dc number I am pretty sure it has not been shipped yet. I pm'd the seller yesterday and asked if it had been shipped yet and I still haven't got a response and yes she has been on since I sent the pm. Can I ask for a refund? I really needed this item for this weekend. Where do I go from here? I know it has only been a little over a week but when I sent pp she said she would get it out asap.