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Old 10-05-2012, 08:04 AM   #1
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I had been told no sex by the hotline nurse, but she had also put me on bed rest, which is no longer necessary. How long should we avoid intercourse?? I actually want it this time (with the boys the thought repulsed me lol) so I want to take advantage just in case it's gonna go away again lol

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Ddc.. I'm sorry.. Why no sex?
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I was always told 2 weeks from any bleeding before I could get off pelvic rest. And I always took advantage of that since I am always on and off pelvic rest my whole pregnancy so I didn't want DH to feel neglected!
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U should b ok as long as u r careful. Like.just no sex after water breaks. Do side by side so ur guy not penetrate if no restrictions by doc.
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Old 10-05-2012, 08:59 AM   #6
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I was always told 2 weeks from any bleeding before I could get off pelvic rest. And I always took advantage of that since I am always on and off pelvic rest my whole pregnancy so I didn't want DH to feel neglected!
Ok cool...that sounds like a good timeframe. Hopefully he's not too afraid to do it lol
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I'm in the same boat. I Was told to wait 3 weeks! Noooo!
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I'd wait 2 weeks with no blood. I had a sch for weeks and weeks with ds2 and anytime we thought it was done, and DTD it came back nothing like feeling like it was my fault (actually I blamed DH) lol.
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I'd wait 2 weeks with no blood. I had a sch for weeks and weeks with ds2 and anytime we thought it was done, and DTD it came back nothing like feeling like it was my fault (actually I blamed DH) lol.
I'm so scared to do it this time.
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I'm so scared to do it this time.
Me too. I had an SCH from 6 weeks until 24 weeks last time. Lots and lots of pelvic rest.
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