Freaking out a little :(

[danimdel]

Originally Posted by piccolo41099 We had a 14 week loss. My dr said there really is no reason to wait. Drs like it if you wait because it makes it easier to date the pg but an early ultrasound would do the same. So we did not wait to try. It took us until the second cycle to get pg, and that little girl will be next month.

Awww, congrats on the little girl! My doctor said we didn't have to wait if we didn't want to. She does an early u/s after someone has a m/c anyway so they could use that for dates. I already had one AF so we can use that....I'm just not sure if it will take more than one cycle to go back to my usual cycle length. I'm just nervous about either outcome.

[danimdel]

Originally Posted by snugglesnsunshine My first cycle after a loss was always longer. Up to 10 days longer. I hope things work out the way you want them to.

What about the 2nd cycle? This is my 2nd. My first AF was 35 days after the m/c, which is exactly 10 days longer thang normal cycle.

[snugglesnsunshine]

I just checked one of my losses and my second cycle was 5 days late. I have gotten preg twice after one af after a m/c. Anythings possible.

[danimdel]

Originally Posted by snugglesnsunshine I just checked one of my losses and my second cycle was 5 days late. I have gotten preg twice after one af after a m/c. Anythings possible.

Thanks for responding! I will just keep waiting.

[snugglesnsunshine]

I went and looked at 2 other losses (the others I wasnt charting yet) and with those, 2nd cycle was 2-3 days late. They were both before 6 weeks though.

I'm praying for you and what has helped me when getting pg again is getting 2-3 betas and prog. Drawn quickly and most of the time I've needed prog. supps. Just knowing I'm doing all I can to make it successful just helps. Plus seeing those numbers double eases my mind. I know the stress, worry, and hurt that you feel.right now but I believe you'll have a rainbow soon too! So hang in there.
:hugs

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Just an update that AF showed today, making me hate my body even more.

[snugglesnsunshine]

Aww. I'm sorry you're going through this. It will get better and will be a memory one day. I'm praying you get a rainbow soon and your heart heals quickly.

[danimdel]

Originally Posted by snugglesnsunshine Aww. I'm sorry you're going through this. It will get better and will be a memory one day. I'm praying you get a rainbow soon and your heart heals quickly.

Thank you so much. I feel like such a crazy lady it's nice to have someone listen to me. We will be preventing this month and maybe 2 months for other reasons but I think it will be good for me to have a month to not think about it...especially if my cycle is going to be irregular now.