BGE vs OS simplex

[crunchyNurseMommy]

This has probably been asked before but I am trying to find a good diaper for DH & my aunt to use easily while I am at work.

We were using tots bots but they are not working for us (whole other thread)

I was contemplating BG 4.0 aplix (& might still go that route) but worried about the aplix staying strong.

Would a OS simplex or BGE be a better option?
They prefer aplix bc DS is a pain in the booty to change (doesn't hold still for a minute!) so wondering if snaps will even work?