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Old 02-12-2013, 10:46 PM   #11
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Re: Early Miscarriage?

I've had 3 early mc's. all were discounted by docs and called things like "chemical pregnancies" or "not really preg". Those kinds if reactions make it worse. Yes, mourn if you feel like mourning. Different people react differently. Even different mc's can feel different for the same woman.

I'm so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))


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Old 02-12-2013, 10:59 PM   #12
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Yes, it "counts". Most definitely. A loss is still a loss, no matter how far along you are. They are different, at different stages/points, but they are all losses.

I totally agree with not going to the Dr. There's really no point, unless something is happening abnormal.
Most Drs are not very compassionate with early losses, and a lot don't "count" them as losses, especially if you don't get a BFP in their office. Really, they just end up making a hard situation that much harder.
I agree. 3 of mine have been so early the doctor never counted them. They have only counted my blighted ovum and the second tri loss I just had. I does set up a pattern though and I still tell anyone who will listen (which was no one until Ben passed) that I had them. I wanted those babies and I will always remember them.

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