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Old 03-26-2014, 09:53 AM   #1
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How long it will take DH to forget to use BC and we have #4. He said he is done (but wont do anything permanent), I really want one more.

Little back story----#3 is 18 months. We had "the talk" a few months ago about BC. I have been in-charge for the last 10 years. I am tired of it, I barely remember to take the pill, dont' want to get my tubes tied nor do I want Merina or anything like it. So I asked DH about getting a V. He said no way no how.

I was BFing and taking the mini pill. But since i was pumping less, starting to wean my periods were wacky. I was having them every 2 to 2.5 weeks. No thanks. So now that baby is weaned I am done with the mini pill

So DH and I talked and I told him I wasn't taking anything for awhile and that he could be responsible for a bit. So either get a V, use condoms, or pull out.

We will see how he does with being responsible for BC.

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I give you five months. Don't knew why that number but

Dh had his v four weeks after #3 was born (his consult was right hours after #3 was born)
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I say 2 months. Men are not good at bc LOL
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I am going with 6 months.

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I say 2 months. Men are not good at bc LOL
Exactly-- he seems to think it is so easy. Now it is his turn.

IDK how long. I say 2 months. But we will see.
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Exactly-- he seems to think it is so easy. Now it is his turn.

IDK how long. I say 2 months. But we will see.
My husband has been in control of our BC for our entire relationship (9years) and he's good at pulling out LOL.

I think it depends on your husbands personality.. Is he persistent in most things, or laid back? Is he stubborn?

A general guesstimation would be 90 days. For him just being a man lol!
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All I know is dh hated using condoms while we were waiting to get the clear from his test results...that took five months
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I will go with 6 months as well
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My dh did too good of a job. It took forever for him to slip up. Like 10 years lol
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I give you 4 months
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