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Old 02-09-2019, 08:35 PM   #1
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Would you tattle on child's friend (YouTube)

I discovered some inappropriate content on some of my 11yo daughter's friends' social media.

The gravest offense is posting a couple YouTube videos with captions saying "I'm so high". Other red flags are using songs with inappropriate lyrics in their Tik Tok videos. These are 5th graders.

I do not know their parents well besides a brief text convo for a recent invite and then a quick meet while they dropped the girls off at my house.

These other girls are well behaved (at school) and I hope have the potential to remain "good kids" and not go in the wrong direction. I work at school so I have a bit more connection to these kids than typical.

Is it appropriate to send a link to the other moms to make sure they know what their girls are up to? Seems like the worst thing that could happen is that my DD is retaliated against for MY actions.

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Old 02-10-2019, 12:33 PM   #2
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I would. I would want someone to tell me if it was my daughter putting up the inappropriate content.
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Sadly, the parents should view all content being posted. You could mail an anonymous letter? I would certainly find a way to inform her, but I agree it could have a backlash to your daughter if it was publicly you who told.
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Sadly, the parents should view all content being posted. You could mail an anonymous letter? I would certainly find a way to inform her, but I agree it could have a backlash to your daughter if it was publicly you who told.
I'd do this. Unfortunately, kill phrase "Don't kill the messenger" exists for a reason.

I honestly don't know many parents that would take that I Judy to thermos pride well. Sad but true.

I'd want to know immediately but people are touchy.
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