is there a FF forum?

[MatildasMum]

I think it's a nice idea.

[fostermomcchr]

COOL! I will have to add it!

Originally Posted by jarahrocks You can have up to three lines so it should be ok!

[greenMImama]

Originally Posted by fostermomcchr OH yes, I set her straight all right! She was a piece of work for sure! She was one that would purposely show skin when she was BF and even would move to MAKE SURE that she was seen nursing, she was particularly bad when there were dads/grandads at playgroup. She actually got up and moved one time to be closer to a grandad when her baby wanted to nurse, she lifted up her shirt-wore NO BRA, both breasts exposed-though, one not as much as the other, but honestly, she had her shirt up way higher than it needed to be, as if to flaunt it at the older gentleman-who clearly was uncomfortable with it. I only say she got up on purpose cuz she WAS sitting in a nice comfy chair, only to move closer to the gentleman and sat down on the edge of a radiator-how MORE obvious could she get???????

WOw that kind of extremists give BF moms a bad rap, my Bf friends are so discreet that half the time you wouldn't even notice they were feeding, not because they are embarrased about BF but because they are modest women.

[fostermomcchr]

Originally Posted by jarahrocks I was going to suggest you strangle her with the nursing bra for being such a jerk but umm apparently that wouldn't have been an option for obvious reasons!

hehehehehe! I would have strangled her with my bare hands had I not had a newborn in them! I got to the point that I would avoid her as much as I could! The problem was that she LOVED to cause a scene so she would move to where most of the moms were and we were following our mobile children around so we were a bit limited in where we could go.

[Ooey]

Originally Posted by jarahrocks I was going to suggest you strangle her with the nursing bra for being such a jerk but umm apparently that wouldn't have been an option for obvious reasons!

[fostermomcchr]

Originally Posted by greenMImama WOw that kind of extremists give BF moms a bad rap, my Bf friends are so discreet that half the time you wouldn't even notice they were feeding, not because they are embarrased about BF but because they are modest women.

YEP! When I nursed my son, most of the time, nobody even knew that was what I was doing, I am a very small chested woman so it was easy for me to be discreet, but I was very careful to NOT offend anyone anyway just b/c I think that you are right, the extremists is what gives BF the bad rap and causes more problems for everyone else. I understand that not everyone can latch a child on w/out nobody seeing anything-especially when you are first learning to BF, but she was taking it to extreme and delighted in getting a reaction out of people. I was soooooo glad when her hubby got transferred! Not a nice thing to say, but I was getting tired of all the drama at playgroup!

[soygurl]

Originally Posted by fostermomcchr Originally Posted by jarahrocks I was going to suggest you strangle her with the nursing bra for being such a jerk but umm apparently that wouldn't have been an option for obvious reasons! hehehehehe! I would have strangled her with my bare hands had I not had a newborn in them! I got to the point that I would avoid her as much as I could! The problem was that she LOVED to cause a scene so she would move to where most of the moms were and we were following our mobile children around so we were a bit limited in where we could go.

I don't care if you ARE joking... that is totally inappropriate! Saying you want to choke a bf'ing mama with a nursing bra is totally unacceptable and hurtful to every nursing mama on here. How would you feel if a BF'ing mama said they were going to shove a bottle down a FF feeding mamas throat because she rude and pushy about FF? Seriously that was sick...

[ferrferr]

Originally Posted by soygurl I don't care if you ARE joking... that is totally inappropriate! Saying you want to choke a bf'ing mama with a nursing bra is totally unacceptable and hurtful to every nursing mama on here. How would you feel if a BF'ing mama said they were going to shove a bottle down a FF feeding mamas throat because she rude and pushy about FF? Seriously that was sick...

I'm a nursing mother and I'm not offended so speak for yourself. And calling formula rat poison and sending FFing mama's nasty PMs because of it is acceptable? Nope. The wheel of acceptability rolls both ways, and sadly it doesn't roll the way of FF hardly ever.

[jarahrocks]

Originally Posted by ferrferr I'm a nursing mother and I'm not offended so speak for yourself. And calling formula rat poison and sending FFing mama's nasty PMs because of it is acceptable? Nope. The wheel of acceptability rolls both ways, and sadly it doesn't roll the way of FF hardly ever.

Ha, I love you.

To the OP, it's funny how there are polls on here about "rat poison" and how people should go to milk banks no matter the obstacles, and comments about FFing moms being weak, nasty PMs sent to ppl who ff, and tons of other offensive things yet that is not noticed? When I make a joke about a RUDE person the fact that she is nursing saves her and everything she does is ok?

I forgot, if you make the liquid gold you can do no wrong.
Excuse me while I go make a bottle.

[soygurl]

Originally Posted by ferrferr I'm a nursing mother and I'm not offended so speak for yourself. And calling formula rat poison and sending FFing mama's nasty PMs because of it is acceptable? Nope. The wheel of acceptability rolls both ways, and sadly it doesn't roll the way of FF hardly ever.

I never said anything about it being ok to send FFing mama's nasty PMs or call them names! I've never even considered doing such a thing! That's not ok either!

But even kindergartners know that you can't make a right with two wrongs... Jeez... lets try for some maturity!