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Old 11-29-2006, 10:07 AM   #1
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my MIL says she doesnt smoke anymore but my FIL does and everytime we see her she REEKS of smoke...dh has asthma and im allergic to cigarette smoke and i dont want dd around it...i tyold her she couldnt hold dd smelling like smoke but she could keep some clean clothes at our house to change into to see her...and she got mad!!!! she is the one who brought up the smoke thing bf ddwas born!!!im NOT backing down!!! WWYD??


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Old 11-29-2006, 10:39 AM   #2
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honestly with you and dh's medical history irt smoking I'd almost make her shower before being around your child... even on the jacket/on the skin nicotine is bad for baby and a sids risk.
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Old 11-29-2006, 10:43 AM   #3
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If you're ready to stand firm on it, don't let them hold her or if you've warned them and she comes over smelling like smoke ask her to change clothes or leave. Your kid, your decision.
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