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Old 09-27-2009, 02:09 AM   #1
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I don't know about you gals, but it really annoys me when people don't leave me feedback!!! In every transaction where I have been the buyer, I always leave feedback first, when I receive the item, then they leave me feedback. That's completely backward if you ask me!!! My feedback should be based on prompt payment, not based on the feedback I leave them!! What if I pay right away, but they take 2 weeks to ship it with no further communication?? Why should they get positive feedback?? But if I leave them negative, they'll leave me negative, even though I deserve positive. And if I don't leave them any, they don't leave me any!!! Why should I always be the one to take initiative??

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Old 09-27-2009, 06:54 AM   #2
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I would be mad as heck too! But sometimes I forget on ebay but post as soon as I remember
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Old 09-27-2009, 07:59 AM   #3
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Thats how I do it. I guess now that you put it that way it does sound wrong. I guess I always figured our feedback should be based on if the buyer ended up happy with the item and then go from there. Not sure why though....
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Old 09-27-2009, 08:59 AM   #4
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I know what you mean!
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Old 09-30-2009, 01:42 AM   #5
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As a seller, it is a gamble when you post FB first. I have been both, buyer and seller. And, if the seller puts my FB in, I remember to put theirs in. I have had a couple instances where the seller didn't leave me FB, but would send in reminders that I hadn't left it for them. They would even put that they leave FB after the buyer sends theirs. I wouldn't have a FB from them even though I paid through PP immediately. I would ignore the messages and not leave it, so we both lose out, but I have enough FB that it really doesn't matter. Oh well. I agree, I think the buyer should get their FB first. They had to send their money FIRST. Kymberli
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